Self-esteem is one of the things that leads our lives. If you don’t have a good self-esteem, chances are that you’re not happy with who you are and your life in general, you see things as obstacles. The opposite is that you feel great about everything, enjoy life and see everything as a new way to learn and to appreciate it’s natural ingeniosity. Self-esteem is what makes us act like us.
Self-esteem is deeply connected with our self-image, which is our mental image of ourself. The higher our self-esteem is, the better our self-image is. Self-esteem is our declaration of being able/unable to do things. It’s in some sort, our limits, or what we believe are our limits. We are unlimited beings, the mind is our only limiter. If you believe everything is possible, then it will, if you don’t, you won’t believe it’s possible.
Working on your self-esteem is easy if you believe it is, so think like that. What you want to do is to accept everything the way it is and to stop trying to change already accomplished events because it is impossible to do so (for the moment). Then you have to act like everything is reachable. Never limit yourself or say no to opportunities. Seek those opportunities and enjoy them. If someone invites you to play a sport you know you’re not that good at it, don’t refuse because of self-esteem corruption. Accept and see the event as a way to ameliorate your skills and enjoy doing it. If you do, others will as well. When you act like you would others to, they will respond to that mood and will act like you. This is called mirroring.
Always seek every opportunity under a positive light. If you’re having boring conversations with your mates ask yourself why. Is it because you don’t participate or is it because the subject is not interesting to you or even BOTH of you? If it’s any of these, change subject or tell the other person you’re not interested. Don’t waste your time and energy on unwanted material, although see the “boring” conversations interesting by finding ways to control them, seek possibilities for you to turn it into something enjoyable, try different speech speed, pitch, expressiveness, etc. Even the worst topics can be interesting if you give some of your energy into it.
One important thing about self-esteem is that we often value it by how others perceive us. Self-esteem should be OUR estimation of ourself not OTHER-esteem. Stop relying on others to judge you, because you’ll only find ways to lower yourself which is the mind primary behavior because it defends the organism against future attacks. Believe EVERYTHING you BELIEVE. Make it rock solid. Sure, sometimes you beliefs aren’t strong enough but look for all the possibilities and then establish yourself. What is vital to remember is that no one should define you. Only you should be doing that. Create yourself based upon YOUR choice, not the others. By doing so, you’ll increase your self-esteem and self-image tremendously.
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