Monthly Archive for February, 2008

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Make Your Goals Vivid

What are your goals? Do you want to make a lot of money? What for? The fact is that the more specific your goal is, the more likely you are to achieve it. For example, let’s say you want a new car this year. That’s fine if just any old car will do. The question is, do you want any old car or do you want an iridium silver 2008 Mercedes-Benz E550 with voice control and ipod integration kit? When you’re specific something magical happens. You’re mind unconsciously searches out ways for you to achieve your goal. Maybe you’ll notice an article about a local Mercedes dealership going out of business. That little gem would slip by you if you didn’t know exactly what you wanted. But how can you take a nebulous idea and turn it into something concrete that’ll really excite you? Good question. Here’s how:

First sit down and write out your goal list. At this point you’re just trying to list your goals; it doesn’t matter how specific. What is it that you want to achieve this year, next year, or in the next ten years? Write down everything! Higher salary, new car, inner peace, whatever it is; write it down now! I like to shoot for fifteen goals. For me it’s a good number that’s just outside of my comfort zone. Whatever number you choose, make sure it’s enough to both excite you and scare you a little bit. Remember that true personal growth happens when you’re outside your comfort zone.

After you finish your list, expand on it. If you said you wanted a higher salary, now’s the time to specify how much. Do you want to make $50,000 or $100,000? When you’re doing this, make sure that your goal is obtainable. If you’re making $32,000 now and your goal is to make $100,000 next year, you’d better have one heck of a plan or it’s not going to happen. Once you’ve made your goals specific, the fun part begins.

Create a goal scrapbook! If you wanted that iridium silver 2008 Benz, then find pictures of it in magazines and make a page exclusively dedicated to that goal. You could have the car in an open road setting or maybe you could create a picture of your Benz pulling up to red velvet ropes or driving through the wine country, whatever! It’s your goal, have fun with it! This exercise accomplishes two things. First, taking the time to put these pages together will solidify the goal in your mind. You wouldn’t take the time to do this if you weren’t truly serious about achieving your goals. This determination will put your subconscious to work and steer you towards success. Second, after you’re finished making your scrapbook you’ll have a constant and vivid reminder of what you want in life. Any time you feel like quitting, you can flip through your scrapbook and remind yourself how much you want to succeed.

Remember that anybody can say they want something. It takes someone who’s driven to articulate exactly what they want and make it real enough to go for it!

Stephen R. Covey The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

People have all kinds of habits, some good and some bad. Some bite their nails and others drive too fast. But then there are a select few that are habitually proactive and begin tasks with the end in mind. These last two are habits of highly effective people. What habits do you have? More importantly, what habits should you have? If you are not sure how to answer that last question, then you desperately need to read Stephen R. Covey’s book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

Covey’s book runs the gamut in terms of personal development. After the initial overview, Covey separates his book into three parts. Each part attacks a different facet of success. For example, the first part is focused exclusively on the individual. Here you’ll learn how to approach the projects that face you every day. Sound like your average self help book? It probably would be if Covey didn’t take an unconventional approach to task management. Einstein once said that, “The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them.” That quote pretty much sums up Covey’s philosophy when engaging your most challenging tasks. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People explains how you can elevate your thinking to solve issues that stand in the way of your success.

The next section of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People explains the principle of interdependence and the importance of seeking out win/win relationships with other successful people. No one is an army of one and everyone needs help to achieve their most ambitious goals. The next section of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People explains the principle of interdependence and the importance of seeking out win/win relationships with other successful people. Two heads truly are better than one and if you’re really serious about your success, you’ll need to help others with theirs’. In this section, Covey will teach you how synergy will help you reach your goals in short order!

Finally, Covey also understands that life can’t be all business all the time so the last section is dedicated to renewing yourself so you don’t miss out on the important things in life. Some people tend to get lost in the pursuit of their goals and forget about the important things in life. In the last section of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Covey reminds you to take a step back every now and then to enjoy life so you don’t forget why you’re working as hard as you are.

If you’re a nail biter or a speeder, then it’s time to get some better habits. With Stephen Covey’s help, you’ll reach your goals a lot faster, and without a speeding ticket.

Anthony Robbins Awaken the Giant Within

How are you doing? No really, how is your life? Are you happy with it? Are there things you wish you could change but don’t think you can? What you think is holding you back may be just an illusion. In his book Awaken the Giant Within, Anthony Robbins explains how many disempowering beliefs we hold have no real basis in fact. All you have to do is challenge them and they fall like a house of cards. But how do you identify which beliefs hold you back and how do you dismiss them? The answer lies in neuro-linguistic programming.

Neuro-linguistic programming or NLP is basically just challenging the logic that created a disempowering belief in the first place. For example, maybe you think that you’ll never be able to be successful because you weren’t born into a privileged family. That kind of thinking could hold you back your whole life! Subconsciously you’ll deny yourself opportunities because you don’t think there is anyway you’d succeed. Instead of moping around in self pity, you could go out and read biographies of people who were raised in a modest family and became insanely successful! Once this devastating belief is removed from your mind, you’re free to pursue your dreams!

Awaken the Giant Within provides step-by-step instructions on how to identify which beliefs are holding you back and then teaches you how to destroy them. Once you’ve eliminated these cancers from your mind you’ll learn how to replace them with more empowering ideas to help transform your life. Robbins helps you shape your behavior starting with the vocabulary you use every day and expands the transformation all the way up to the habits that make up your everyday life. Awaken the Giant Within is a manual for transformation!

If there is any part of your life that you aren’t 100% satisfied with, then you owe it to yourself to pick up a copy of Awaken the Giant Within and find out what’s holding you back from reaching your true potential in life.